Ophiucus

Some of my friends are having a crisis with their social life.

These problems were not visible to me until today. At first, I thought I was the only one having all the stress and trouble this semester that had affected my attitude towards other people.

Some of my friends have expressed their feelings through various media. One of which used the blog to express it, another told others about the feeling, some just used verbal communication to do it.

Most of them were telling me about the same thing, we are getting irritated with one or two of their closest friends. Kinda funny you think? Sometimes, when we have been already too close to other people we often see their dark side too. The dark side, of course, is not something that we had expected to see especially from the people we trust.

Let’s just say that most people usually overestimate their closest friend as the most trustworthy friend they have until they found out that their most trusted friend often badmouthed them. Others overestimated about their friends ability to judge or befriend with them. While, other group felt that they are being used by their closest friend.

I did experience these things and I’ve got to admit they’re not easy to handle. Most of the problems cured themselves as time goes by, some went away together with our trust, and some just remained like a chronic disease.

It is how we handle these problems that matters. We have to introspect and see deep inside our heart then judge whether it is me who have problem or they?

I am 91.1 kg.

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